I so appreciate my fellow bloggers’ insights and their willingness to share their experiences, smarts and intentions for this coming year.
It
took me forever - as in countless rejected manuscripts showcasing countless
puppet-like characters - to understand this truth.I need to know my character’s need/want/wish … and I need to know mine.
Otherwise neither of us can act, re-act, grow and triumph as we drive the twists and turns of our stories’ highways.
Digging deep within – my characters and myself - reveals the answer, always.
“If you were brave enough to leap,” Godin posited, “who would you choose to 'used to be'?”
Hmmmmm…..I pondered.
The possibilities intrigued me.
In her January 4 Chicago Tribune column, writer Heidi Stevens suggested we skip declaring New Year’s resolutions and instead write a mission statement.
A mission statement, she wrote, “was less about what she should tackle and more about the shape she wanted her life to take.”
I liked that insight. What struck me most was her own mission statement: to focus on what she knows to be true.
Hmmmmm….I pondered further.
More possibilities to consider.
Finally, Stevens’ fellow Chicago Tribune writer Mary Schmich shared an idea in her January 7 column that April Halprin Wayland echoed in her January 9 post: choose one word to live by in the coming year.
Having to select that one word that would guide your new year was akin to “being dropped inside a Super Target,” Schmich wrote, “and asked to pick one object, and only one, that you would carry with you for the next 12 months.”
Once again, I pondered intriguing possibilities.
Embrace? Flow? Risk? Grow? Leap? Simply, be?
What and who I used to be. My mission statement. My one word for the coming year.

5 comments:
Love this, Esther:
>>The phrase “used to be,” it turns out, connotes neither failure nor obsolescence. Instead, it signals bravery and progress.<<
Have you chosen your word for 2015? I have both a single word plus a 2-word phrase as my "themes" for the year. Hope this is a great year for you!
You've given me lots to think about, too, Esther. Thank you!
Very inspiring. I don't know my answers yet. But I know you are right about the character and me.
Susan at Pen and Ink
Hmmmm. AZ, Phoenix (such a name!)
& Tucson bring up wonderful family connections for me, where I enjoyed many child months, one year. Glad you've warmed your mind/heart/body there, Esther.
Thanks for sharing the Chicago columnists insights.
Intentions, eyedeers (because our mind's eye thinks of them but they can quickly vanish like deers) & goals are like a palette for 2015.
This post is a boost. Appreciations to the TA's & especially, you.
I'm so glad these "exercises" proved worthy, Susan and Jan.
I'm testing them out to see how "usable" they are with my story characters. :)
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