Happy Poetry Friday! Today's poem and something to get you going in the new year are both below.
To kick off today's post I wanted to share a favorite quote. Years ago, author
Betsy Byars spoke at the
SCBWI's national conference and said:
“Betsy, there’s a woman in Kansas writing the same book you are, and she’s not sitting on the couch watching Roadrunner cartoons.”
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How do you get off that couch? That's basically the question TeachingAuthors is exploring this week: “What keeps you going? How do we overcome disappointment, distractions, rejection, etc.?”
So...what keeps me going? My tribe.
I have lots of tribes, of course—my little triangle of a family, my wider family, my folk music friends, my hiking gang, my politically active friends and more.
I mean, who would not be inspired by this week's discussion?
I sooo relate when
JoAnn Early Macken talks about how “writing becomes an obligation, even drudgery. I have to drag myself to the page, and it's much easier to find something else to do that seems more urgent.”
Here's one thing that draws me away from my writing--can you relate?
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JoAnn's post, in which she talks about writing every morning on her loveseat, reminded me of the Flannery O’Connor quote, “Every morning between 9 and 12, I go to my room and sit before a piece of paper. Many times, I just sit for three hours with no ideas coming to me. But, I know one thing. If an idea does come between 9 and 12, I’m there ready for it.”
Esther Hershenhorn talks about sending herself “encouraging greetings via snail mail and email.”
I send myself encouraging texts! I like Dante's quote, “
The Infinite Goodness has such wide arms that it takes whatever turns to it.” So every day I send a commitment to my
writer friend Adell Shay (and sometimes my writing buddy
Rebecca Gold). I text them that I am letting go of the product. I say I am turning my book over to the “loving arms of the infinite universe.”
Letting go of the product and
Mary Ann Rodman's post both remind me of this
poignant poem by author Kate Messner about how some of us may be feeling after the
ALA Awards were announced on Monday (the poem was brought to my attention by
Greg Pincus).
In her post this week,
Jeanne Marie Grunwell Ford says that sharing is the key for her. She says,“the paycheck is not really a motivating factor."
Amen to that! When I was in the corporate world, I may have been frustrated by the petty politics, I may have spent Sundays in my office, I may have ached from those damned high heels, but at least I had that paycheck.
I have learned that I need a paycheck in this life, too. For awhile I paid myself seven dollars worth of living flowers from the local nursery every Friday. It may not seem like much but, boy! I felt valued.
Carmela Martino's post talks about relating to other writers' struggles...which made me think of this
blog post by agent Mary Kole on dealing with rejection (also brought to my attention by the most amazing
Mr. Pincus).
Carmela also talked about setting DEADLINES. Yes, yes, YES—deadlines are powerful for me, too!
The thing is, deadlines--commitments of any kind--are fine...IF I
say them aloud to someone in my tribe. But...if I say, "no more peanut butter today" just to myself, well, here's what happened yesterday:
Never fear! Today's
Writing Workout is all about
working with someone in your tribe.
Here's what to do:
1)
Grab a buddy from your writing tribe.
2) Both of you
write three commitments for the coming week.
Don't set yourself up to fail. Don't commit to writing a novel in a week. Start out easy and see what you can realistically accomplish in seven days.
3)
Set a deadline.
4)
Select a "salary" you will pay yourself.
The important thing is to pay yourself every week whether you've completed all three commitments or not. Don't business execs get paid even when they've had an unproductive week? It happens. This is not about whipping yourself. This is encouraging yourself. Put the whip away and take the paycheck.
5)
Read your commitments to each other.
4)
Check in with each other at the end of the week.
For example:
I commit to meditating 20 minutes once a week, writing for three hours this week, and being in bed by 10 pm at least two days of the week. My due date is Thursday at 8 pm. On Friday, I will pay myself seven dollars worth of flowers for my garden. Now it's your turn:
My Commitment to Me
I commit to:
1._____________________
2._____________________
3._____________________
My due date is:
_____________________
My salary is:
_____________________
Don't forget to call your writing buddy at the end of the week to check in!
And finally, here's today's poem--about my tribe.
HARD HIKE
by April Halprin Wayland
My boots are wearing thin.
Their soles have little soul.
The wind has stung my skin.
My goals are all black holes.
I tilt my bottle, sip.
Why bother on this trip?
I drink the final drop.
I stop.
There's gravel in my shoe.
I want to turn around.
Those voices...are they true?
I sit and write them down.
Then—
just around the bend?
Could that be...a face?
Yes—I pick up my pace!
A member of my band!
You stretch your steadfast hand.
I made it—thanks to you.
Look back: wow—what a view!
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| A wonderful teacher can inspire me and move me forward--what about you? Who in your tribe moves you forward? Let us know! |
Poem, drawings and photos (c) by April Halprin Wayland
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