Friday, March 17, 2023

Embracing Change with an Etheree

Happy Poetry Friday (and St. Patrick's Day too)!

Today, I'm wrapping up our TeachingAuthors series on the theme of Moving Forward in the New Year by sharing an original Etheree poem.

You may recall that Esther kicked off our topic back in January with her review of The Stories Behind the Stories: The Remarkable True Tales Behind Your Favorite Kid's Books by Danielle Higley (Bushel & Peck Books). Of course, I loved reading all the posts in this series, but April's has especially stuck with me. She shared her One Little Word for the year: Simplify. The word is becoming my mantra as my husband and I try to declutter all the stuff we've accumulated over the last forty years. Given that we've lived in only one place in all that time, it's A LOT of stuff! 

Image of lots of tools and storage bins in corner of a room
This photo by Sigmund on Unsplash looks a lot like a corner of our basement.

The decluttering has been necessitated by the fact that we're seriously contemplating selling our house.  Doing so would be a HUGE change, and we're both finding the idea a bit overwhelming. That feeling inspired me to take up this month's Poetry Sisters' challenge to write an Etheree on the theme of "transformation." I came up with the following. (Click on the image below to enlarge it.)


I still don't know what the future will hold, but writing this poem helped me feel a little less overwhelmed. So, a big THANK YOU to the Poetry Sisters! I look forward to reading all your Etherees at the end of the month. 

Poetry Friday logo by Linda Mitchell
Meanwhile, I'm going to check out this week's Poetry Friday roundup hosted by Laura Purdie Salas.


Carmela

19 comments:

Bobbi Miller said...
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Bobbi Miller said...

This is lovely, Carmela! Inspiring! And I like the basement corner, too! It means someone -- some life -- passed through and stayed awhile. Bobbi

Susan T. said...

Change does demand attention! Good luck with the sale of your house if that's what you decide.

Patricia Franz said...

Hope you find calm waters in the days/weeks ahead, Carmela. Your poem reminds me to breathe, too.
:)

Denise Krebs said...

Carmela, yay for embracing change and transformation. I have done my share of decluttering over our 40-year marriage, but we've moved seven times during those years! I am not sure what it would feel like if I was doing the decluttering for a full 40 years. At least you haven't lost, misplaced, or forgotten special items. You'll get it done! I love your etheree. "Change / demands / attention" Yes, indeed, and it seems you are ready to give it.

Sarah Grace Tuttle said...

"Keeping my hand light on the tiller..." I love that bit. So much potential and joy in that. Hope you have fun decluttering, and enjoy your new direction!

Linda B said...

Believing in "unexpected wonders" is a good way to be, Carmela. I've been in my new place for nearly 11 years now, left the old one of 40 years like you may be. If you can, I moved before I sold my home & left things behind for an estate sale. It made it easier to take only what fit for my new one. Now, I admit that I still need to clean out more! Best wishes on your journey!

Mary Lee said...

Thanks for the inspiration -- both in the poem and in your decluttering efforts. We haven't been in this house for 40 years, but that picture of a basement corner could be ours. And then there are the closets and garage...oof. We need to get some serious donating going on!

laurasalas said...

I love "my hand light on the tiller"--what a good motto for the way we hold onto things. I love getting rid of things and always feel lighter when I declutter and toss and donate. Hoping you'll find some of that unshackled feeling, too! <3

Carmela Martino said...

Thanks, Bobbi. I was too embarrassed at the clutter in our basement to take a picture of it.

Carmela Martino said...

Thanks, Susan. I appreciate the good luck wishes.

Carmela Martino said...

Hi Patricia. So glad the poem reminded you to breathe, too. :-)

Carmela Martino said...

Thanks for the encouragement, Denise!

Carmela Martino said...

I'm glad you like "Keeping my hand light on the tiller," Sarah. That isn't easy for me to do, though. :-)

Carmela Martino said...

Thanks for the advice, Linda B. It's helpful to hear from others who "have been there."

Carmela Martino said...

Mary Lee, I've been giving away SO MUCH stuff through our local "Buy Nothing Group." It's easier to part with these things when I know they're going to someone who will put them to good use.

Carmela Martino said...

Thanks, Laura, I AM feeling lighter. But I still have so far to go!

April Halprin Wayland said...

Carmela ~ I'm right there with you about keeping too much and the freedom when I can let something go. I just took two big things to the Goodwill TODAY (when you move stuff out of a room for carpet cleaners, it becomes more apparent what you don’t want to move back in).

I am trying to give at least one book away each day. Sometimes I forget.

I love your poem--about change demanding attention and keeping a light hand on the tiller. You say so much in such a beautifully spare form...wow.

Carmela Martino said...

April, hooray for getting rid of stuff!
And thanks for your feedback on my Etheree. I'm so glad you like it!